Recent discussion - I am pro-gay marriage and was talking to a friend who is anti-gay marriage (and is gay, go figure). His comment was that marriage is for heteros. I said fine, don't get married, but don't you want other homos to have the choice? His response was that there is nothing you can get from marriage that you can't get in any other way.

I was a little stumped. So there are some marriage-related rights that you can set up without being married - for example, you can will your assets to your partner, rather than have them go automatically to them as your spouse.

But what are the other rights / priveleges that are lost?

Can someone give their partner the right to make healthcare decisions even though they are not legally "family"?

Can you appoint someone beneficiary of your 401K if not married?

Can you help me think of other examples?
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My Body is a Temple
San Diego
  • only available through marriage

    Fri, April 15, 2005 - 9:39 PM
    "The status of heterosexual"

    This is the one causes all the fuss. Marriage is the single thing that can prove you are 'straight". Not just straight as in sexual orientation, but straight and narrow.

    "Oh, he's finally settled down and got married. He's no longer a rambler, that one. He must have been through rehab and found Jesus." " I bet he'll qualify for that loan now!" "His insurance will go way down."


    They say it all the time; that Marriage is what keeps them from going Gay. You can hear it between the lines:

    Manfred: "If I weren't married to Honey here, I'd be out gettin' blowjobs from hippies every weekend."

    Honey: "Why there'd be no way for me to keep Manfred putting food in our mouths without Marriage. I see the way he eyes those tranny hookers, but with Marriage Brand Relationship, I can be secure."

    Even with Marriage II, where the woman is no longer property, people depend on Marriage to keep them following the laws of the Bible. The Promise Keepers!

    It's the single thing that can identify them as straight. If Sodomites could be married, that would all pass like sand through our fingers. This is why it is considered an Assault on Marriage.

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